"It’s good-bye to public life in the way that you try to communicate with an audience playfully like we’re friends, beyond the work you are actually paid for. Letterman. Saturday Night Live. That kind of thing. I want to go make a movie and be very present for that and give it everything I have, and after we’re done, then the rest of the time is mine."
Oh no, my life is empty now.
End snark.
I've admired his acting abilities at times, but based on too many publicly boorish incidents to count I don't much like Alec Baldwin the man. Strangely enough though, there were moments when I actually sympathized with him as I read his missive. Stuff like this(if true):
"The same guy who followed my wife on a bicycle, and when she slipped and fell trying to dodge him and hurt her leg, he laughed at her and said, “See what I made you do?” At my wife. How would that make you feel?"
And when he writes this:
"I want the same thing everybody else wants. I want a happy home, and for the first time in my adult life, I have one. I love my wife more than anything in the world and I love my child more than anything else in the world and I don’t want that to change in any way."
But there are several things things that hold me back from getting too sympathetic toward Baldwin.
With some celebrities there's this little game they play with the paparazzi that goes something like "Look at me! Look at me! Oh those awful paparazzi! Look at me! Look at me!" Baldwin's version of that, consciously or not, was in becoming the celebrity in New York City to try to provoke and get a picture or video of his reaction. Even Baldwin admits he should have handled himself better in that regard.
Second, I don't find his defense regarding the gay slurs as credible. How can anyone believe this:
"At the time, I didn’t view “toxic little queen” as a homophobic statement. I didn’t realize how those words could give offense, and I’m sorry for that."
I hate that term homophobic, but who in the world thinks that calling some guy a "toxic little queen" isn't offensive? Ridiculous.
I also don't believe Baldwin regarding the episode from last fall when he appears to have called another photographer a(sorry, I don't know how to get around it) "c*cksucking faggot." At the time he claimed that the second word was "fathead," and the video is inconclusive to me. Now he says "You don’t know, and I don’t know..." Uh huh. And who uses that first word and then follows it with "fathead"? We all know the natural usage of that word is mostly followed by, if anything, "faggot." Maybe SOB. Maybe A**hole. But fathead? That just seems lame. It's not nice, it's not intended to be nice, but there it is.
Most important of all as to why I don't sympathize with Baldwin is that, among other things, this is a clear case of what goes around, comes around. I could just as well have titled this post "Noted Shrieking Harpy Harps About Shrieking Harpies Harping On Him." He correctly notes that "In the New Media culture, anything good you do is tossed in a pit, and you are measured by who you are on your worst day." But that's exactly what he and many of his former friends on the left do every day to their political opponents. It's a way of life for them. Assume ill will. Assume the basest of motives. Take one mistake or flub and turn it into a Scarlett Letter.
And then there's this:
"Even the U.S., which is so preposterously judgmental now. The heart, the arteries of the country are now clogged with hate. The fuel of American political life is hatred."
Actually, the fuel of American political life right now is lies, but yes, there's plenty of hate too. And with his own hateful and judgmental over-the-top rhetoric against conservatives and Republicans he's contributed more than his own fair share the last 20 years. He blames Fox and Breitbart and even tosses in MSNBC at the last second, but charity begins at home. Not that Baldwin will ever see his hypocrisy, the narcissism is too strong.
At first it's kind of amusing to watch so-called progressives eat one of their own, but it gets tedious quickly and ultimately it's just as nasty and brutish a process as when they do it to those to their right politically. Had Baldwin refrained from being so nasty and brutish himself all those years and picked better friends he probably wouldn't be so bitter right now.
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